Celebrating round #2

The first time I had chemotherapy, I had a slight allergic reaction to the Herceptin.  My arms broke out in an itchy rash.  For this second round, they gave me benedryl via my I.V. prior to the Herceptin.  Which worked very well, but also contributed to me falling asleep during the Herceptin infusion!  Which is why my last post ended rather abruptly.

All and all, this second chemo went very smoothly.  I knew a little more what to expect and was not so edgy.  On Friday, the day after my second treatment, two of my dear friends from college came down to visit.  Bonnie and Liz, brought lunch, meals to be tucked away in the freezer, and stayed and planted pansies and violets in two planters and pull weeds.  It was so nice to visit with them.  On Friday evening, Josh was inducted into the St. Peter High School National Honor Society.  I was happy I was able to be there for the ceremony, and really enjoyed seeing so many of his friends achieve this honor.  Yet another thing I like about having lived in the same small community for so many years – watching Josh’s preschool and kindergarten friends grow and mature into such amazing young adults. 

Yesterday was another full and rich day that went off without a hitch.  My niece Marit is getting married in Mexico with this summer, and prior to my cancer diagnosis my sister-in-law Mary and I had scheduled a shower for the bride and groom.  Fortunately the party had been scheduled at my brother and sister-in-law’s house, and my brother is a fabulous cook.  There were about 50 people from different corners of both Skip and Marit’s lives in attendance.  Most of people there did not know each other, but all seemed to have a good time. 

And today is mother’s day.  I am tired from yesterday’s events but still feeling okay.  The day began with a bit more excitement than I really needed.  Last night, Josh and his friends had decided to camp out at long time friend “Erkel’s” home in the country.  Josh had driven our VW Eurovan over there and was sleeping in the lower part of the van.  His friend, Aaron was sleeping in the pop-up top.  Others were sleeping in tents or sitting around the campfire.  Erkel thought he would play a little joke and put a very tiny firecracker on the back windshield wiper of the van.  It completely shattered the back windshield scaring the bejesus out of everyone.  Fortunately the shattering glass did not hurt any one.  This all happened about 3:00AM, and needless to say, Josh did not sleep soundly after that.  Tomorrow we will call the insurance company and deal with the outcome of all that. 

Knowing I would have a number of low energy days on the horizon, I requested a comfortable chaise lounge for a Mother’s Day present.  That was delivered on Friday.  I was surprised when Josh and Bob gave me yet another Mother’s Day gift of a beautiful Le Creuset deep covered skillet.  I can’t wait to feel well enough to cook some wonderful meals in that. 

So today I am just resting, and feeling very fortunate.  I am thinking a lot about my mom today.  This is only the second mother’s day I have experienced since she passed away.  I am thinking about my grandmother Juline, who died from breast cancer when she was 36 years old and my mother was only 13.  I am thinking about my cousin Rob’s beautiful daughters who are experiencing their first mother’s day without their incredible mother Marcy, yet another amazing and strong woman who died from complications of this disease.

I count myself among the lucky ones.  I am feeling blessed to be surrounded by circle of support and I am facing this disease during a time when so many advances have been made.  Be it memories or moments, there is so much to celebrate on this day.